1) They don’t assume that the way they think and feel about a situation is the way it is in reality, nor how it will turn out in the end.
2) Their emotional base points are not external.
3) They don’t assume to know what it is that will make them truly happy
4) They don’t think that being fearful is a sign they are on the wrong path.
5) They know that happiness is a choice, but they don’t feel the need to make it all the time.
6) They don’t allow their thoughts to be chosen for them
7) They recognize that infallible composure is not emotional intelligence.
8) They know that a feeling will not kill them.
9) They don’t just become close friends with anyone.
10) . They don’t confuse a bad feeling for a bad life.