10 THINGS EMOTIONALLY INTELLIGENT PEOPLE do not DO

1) They don’t assume that the way they think and feel about a situation is the way it is in reality, nor how it will turn out in the end. 
2)  Their emotional base points are not external.
3)  They don’t assume to know what it is that will make them truly happy
4) They don’t think that being fearful is a sign they are on the wrong path. 
5) They know that happiness is a choice, but they don’t feel the need to make it all the time. 
6) They don’t allow their thoughts to be chosen for them

Daily routine that change us

1) Habits create moods
2) Let Conscious decisions dictate the day.. otherwise autopilet 
3) Happiness is not how many things you do.. how well you do them 
4) When you regulate your daily actions, you deactivate your “fight or flight” instincts because you’re no longer confronting the unknown.
5) As children, routine gives us a feeling of safety. As adults, it gives us a feeling of purpose.
6) You feel content because routine consistently reaffirms a decision you already made. 
7) As your body self-regulates, routine becomes the pathway to “flow2 .

Indian Judicial system .. Need overhaul

1) Run Court in two shifts
2) Limits to adjournments by advocates - Max 2
3) Use annual Budget kind of system to have list of cases
4) Make guideline's for common kinds of cases
5) Separate courts for civil and criminal cases
6) Hire temporary staff to close cases
7) Review of long pending cases by separate team
8) Separate Judges for transfer petition
9) Only 1 case allowed between same parties
10) Use AI for similar cases

Social Media and Addiction

Addiction is not new area. However it is getting diverse like Food, Netflix, Reels, Game, Porn, mobile , or chats. Addiction is about easy success. 

Social media gives us wide exposure to brilliant minds as well as dirty minds. Our mind gets easily attached to dirt as it is cheap and easy. Discipline is dying slowly. Comfort zones are taking over. 

Our consciousness is sticky. We feel stickiness in our mind about these addictions. Once we get taste of a like or appreciation. It stick to mind. We want more of that in easy way.  

Luxurious Marriages and waste of money

Lot of money is being spent in India on marriages. Don't we have to put taxes on such marriages? 

In poor countries like India, spending and cost of marriages are increasing. That may be cause of concern. It may be hard earned money for someone, but it put pressure on people who cant spent such large sum to showoff in society. 

Court cases on large maintenance and Large alimony cant be stopped if such spending does not get curbed. 

Emotional and financial burden will reduce , if such expenses come down. 

What is your views?  

70 Hours week

India’s youngster should work 70 hours a week. Narayan Murthy floated this idea to combat challenges in growing economy. It revived old debate of HARD work vs SMART work.

ERA of multiple Identities

We are in era of productive race. People are running in one way or another. One identity is not enough. Earlier it was great if you were successful in one field. It is era to wear multiple caps.

I know one friend who is good singer, cyclist, yoga freak, artist, painter, and designer. While another friend is family man, psychologist, yoga enthusiast, story teller, and family man.  Doing well in all hats is an art. People are exploring multiple areas of interests. Branding themselves in unknown territory.